Lesbian Sex Talk: Anal Sex for Total Beginners, or “Yikes, she wants to have anal sex!”

So she wants to have anal sex.  If you both do it right, you’ll end up loving it! But you still feel shy, weird, grossed out. First things first. Identify what’s making you feel reticent. The first reason some of use don’t partake in anal sex is because we think it’s “dirty.”  It’s not.  The  beginning of your anus that is involved in anal play usually has no fecal material.  Unless you have to go the bathroom, your fecal matter is way up inside. But, if you are still concerned,  you can always have a bowel movement prior to having anal sex. Or, do a fast enema if you want to be squeaky clean.  Our boys at Toys of Eros, experts in anal sex, gave us some important hints and info about enemas. Don’t start with a finger:  Many newbies think the way to start exploring anal sex is with a finger.  Don’t.  A finger isn’t necessarily smooth and thin. There are toys that are smaller and smoother than a finger.  Choose a vibrating slim anal toy to relax the anus even more.  Toys of Eros favorites are the Silicone Pop Beads, the O’Boy, and the Harvey. They are all the size

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Here’s the 411 on Female Ejaculation

  Of all the things our bodies do, perhaps nothing is shrouded in more mystery than female ejaculation. Headlines and online forums are constantly speculating as to what it’s made of, how it’s triggered, and even whether or not it actually happens. We’ve been in the dark for so long about this phenomenon because it’s kind of hard to study in a laboratory setting, sex therapist Vanessa Marin points out. But we do know that it’s real, and contrary to Count 10 it’s not just pee.

What’s up with Nipple Clamps?

Think the idea of nipple clamps is nuts? Find it hard to understand the appeal?   Discover why everyone should add a pinch of nipple naughtiness to their play. What is Nipple Play and Nipple Torture?

Winter at Toys of Eros

We love the winter. This is when Toys of Eros shines.  We can really talk to you, and advise you with your shopping.  Often you’re alone in the store, and get our undivided attention.  You can ask all those embarrassing questions you don’t want to ask in front of 50 strangers.  

History of The Vibrator

The Provincetown History of Sex Museum  by, Toys of Eros THE BIRTH OF THE VIBRATOR It all began in ancient Greece, when Hippocrates decided that almost all diseases that befell women were due to an illness of their reproductive system.

Anal Sex: The Final Frontier for Lesbians and Queers.

First things first.   Anal sex should be pleasurable, not painful.  For women, having the anus stimulated during strap-on or clitoral stimulation will heighten orgasm and feel great.

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